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Why dont the anti-abortionsists fun massive contraception and sex ed provision? Why dont the anti abortionists fund super detailed sex ed that coveres EVERYTHING, hand out free condoms, reaserach perfect contraception and see all pre teens are put on i before even capable of doing it, then its only removed after 6 months of form filling to indicate you are truely ready for guys after age 24?
Is it as they are part of the go forth and muliply cult who does not have a commmandment against rape as it would get in the way of go forth and multiply, why they hate gays too.
or that young single fit women have lots of power over men... untill they get pregnant?
Likwise why promote marriage given the divorce and domestic violence rate...
is it to fund places like this?
'The Magdelen Laundries' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here. | I totally don't understand this either.
Most anti-abortionists favour no sex and no learning about such matters until marriage, and don't believe that women should make any decisions, just get married, stay home and look after the guys.
Some also believe that any type of contraception is evil excluding the rhythm method which doesn't actually work. Another belief is that women's sexuality is somehow 'evil' and promotes lust/rape/etc.
I have seen the 'Magdalen Sisters' film twice, but it would still shock me to see it again. I was raped a few years ago, so wonder if I could have ended up there given the right circumstances. My great aunt was raped by a policeman and got pregnant when she was young, and was then ostracised by most of the family because of the thinking at the time.
They mostly do believe the 'go forth and multiply' which I don't believe can now be in the physical sense of having many guyren, but more in the sense of spreading the seed of the Word of God.
Although there are high divorce and domestic violence rates, that doesn't prove that there is anything wrong with marriage, just that there is something wrong with people. I would make counselling obligatory for anyone wanting to divorce(!) | 3 Why dont the anti abortionists fund fully detailed sex ed & develop perfect contraception? Why dont the anti abortionists fund super detailed sex ed that coveres EVERYTHING, hand out free condoms, reaserach perfect contraception and see all pre teens are put on i before even capable of doing it, then its only removed after 6 months of form filling to indicate you are truely ready for guys after age 24?
Is it as they are part of the go forth and muliply cult who does not have a commmandment against rape as it would get in the way of go forth and multiply, why they hate gays too.
or that young single fit women have lots of power over men... untill they get pregnant?
Likwise why promote marriage given the divorce and domestic violence rate...
is it to fund places like this?
'The Magdelen Laundries' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
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news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa… | | Sadly, it's because many of them also believe sex should be reserved for cold, mechanical baby-making activities, and within marriages. Not a very realistic view of the world, and of course it doesn't work. You can't dictate morality when neither party is harmed. | A serious relationship & gay sex at a young age...? im 14 1/2 btw..
im gay, and im with my very first boyfriend of 4 months, he is as well gay but he's 13.. were both openly gay, and probably the only young openly gay couple at our jr high. he's in 7th grade, and im in 8th grade, he's suppose to 8th and im suppose to be in 9th. we've known each other for about 10 years already, since just about the age i was 4. we both went to the same elementary and he's just about my bestfriend. when i told him i was gay, and that i've been liking him for awhile now, he said the same and we started dating this year. our parents do not know about our relationship except my boyfriend's mom, she's really supportive and she really likes me, and so does my boyfriend's younger brother, he doesn't want to tell his dad because he thinks it would let his dad down, and disappoint him. my parents do not know because there both very homo-phobic, and do not think the homosexual way of life is right. therefor i have not told them, i've told some of my cousins, and my two sisters, that are very supportive. those are just some facts, but about our relationship.. me do the usual stuff like kiss, hold hands, makeout, hug, cuddle, fall asleep together. i can say i have fallen in love with this boy, and he's in love with me. our relationship got pretty serious during the month and half, when we started getting sexually active, i spent the night at this dads (parents are divorced & separated) and we just hung out like regular bestfriends, played video games, watch tv, hang out with some friends down the street at the park, went out to go eat with his parents, and then later into the night, we were laying down on his bed watching some random comedy movie we rented, and since i don't like movies i was just texting my friends and what not, and i was really bored so, i just got up on him and started kissing him, i can tell he wanted to since he didn't say anything and we were just making out for the longest we have ever madeout, we both started getting horny cause of all the rubbing and stuff (we were wearing boxers and a teeshirt) he started grabbing at my package, and a little after 20 minutes we gave eachother head, it was pretty intense and felt really good, we showered together, and then went to the bed. that was the first real serious night we've ever had with another person. after 3 weeks later, i spent the night at his moms house, we did just about the same thing we did every night, and then the sexual thing happened again, but this time we took all of our clothes off, i know for a fact that i am std free, and that he is as well (i went with him everywhere, doctor appointments, dentist, even the grocery store and getting hair cuts sometimes) and well we didn't plan on actually having sex, but we did that night... i wasn't the one getting penetrated but he was, and i didn't use a condom because again it happened then and there not planned or anything, i wasnt worried cause were both std free and never have messed around with another person, and we obviously coudlnt get pregnant. the next weekend, the same thing happened but at his dads but i was the one getting penetrated this time, no condom was used again unfortunately... but im fine and nothing seems to be wrong, we don't really plan on having any sexual intercourse, i just happens. wel the question is, are we taking this relationship a little to serious at this age? please dont be rude.. | That sounds amazing =)
Hey dude, you don't need to worry about what anyone thinks, because all that matters is that you love each other, and he seems to make you very happy, so other people's opinions don't really matter. Don't let other people tell you what's right and wrong.
I think you have a really cute, awesome relationship. I'm even a little bit envious. I'm 16 and I've never had the opportunity to have a relationship like that. Count yourself lucky and enjoy it.
Are you worried about the sex? Don't be scared to do it, because as you said - it just came naturally. When it comes naturally like that - it's OK. I would recommend you use a condom anyway. =) | Why dont the anti abortionists fund super detailed sex ed that covers EVERYTHING, & dev. Perfect contraception , hand out free condoms, reaserach perfect contraception and see all pre teens are put on i before even capable of doing it, then its only removed after 6 months of form filling to indicate you are truely ready for guys after age 24?
Is it as they are part of the go forth and muliply cult who does not have a commmandment against rape as it would get in the way of go forth and multiply, why they hate gays too.
or that young single fit women have lots of power over men... untill they get pregnant?
Likwise why promote marriage given the divorce and domestic violence rate...
is it to fund places like this?
'The Magdelen Laundries' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here. | Because they are often extremists. They don't believe in abortion nor sex before marriage. Sex without the purpose of procreation.
If these people would be more open to better sexual education and acess to better birth control then there would be less accidental preganancy which they disagree with.
But because they refuse to accept that sex is going to happen outside of marriage even if they don't agree with it and they remain closed to new ideas, this cycle will be constantly continuing. | I am so sad over losing my relationship with my husband over his porn addiction !? Since me and my husband have been married (2yrs ago) I always complained about our sex life. I found out when I was pregnant that he had a secret porn addiction and masturbated daily behind my back whilst indulging in free online porn videos. He rejects my attempts, I cant touch him at night. When I have an urge I suck it up and get frustrated. I go for months without being satisfied. Yesterday after a dramatic scene, he confessed to me that he always has been a porn addict and that he sincerely seeks help to recover. He claims he does not want to be that way and that he can't stop without professional help. Today after long research and phone conversations with therapists I came to realize what I feared for a long time. Once an addict always an addict. And he may always relapse to porn. He completely has cut me off his sex life. But the damage is even bigger than just that. I don't want to have sex with him anymore either because I know that he is damaged. I know the sex we will possibly have will not mean what it should mean that he will always think of porn at the back of his mind. I do love him but I can't get myself to want him sexually anymore. And my husband is my knight shining armor and I am afraid this means the end for us. It's like someone who spit in your food. I just can't have it anymore....My question is do you believe he can fully recover and enjoy a normal healthy sex life with me? And will I be able to doubt and second thought him the whole time??? | I did the dutifual "til death do us part" wife thing when after 5 years of marriage I found out my husband had been a sex addict for 13 years.
I wasted 2 years of my life with him in treatment but him so far gone, there was nothing they could do for him.
Don't let anyone tell you that you owe it to him. The Bible allows for divorce for those whose spouse commits adultry.
People who would judge you if you walked away havent' lived it. Many porn addicts move on to meeting women or men. They get bored with one level of perversion and move on to something more dangerous or intense.
That being said, I do know that if caught early, and if working a 12 step program for this, there can be hope. But it is a struggle. The addict has to handle true intimacy.
Also, you need to find out what you have control on and what you don't. You don't have control on what he does. You focus on being focused and healthy yourself. There are 12 step programs for spouses of sex addicts.
Don't make yourself sick over his sickness. Be well no matter what he does. | So i broke up w my husband because i found out he was freakin downloading porn on my laptop...was i right? we been together for like 5 years and i knew he would occasionally watch porn movies...n then about 2years in the relationship he started downloading porn in the laptop n he started doin it everyday w his free time even tho we had lots of sex...n im not ugly or fat.....i told him to stop n it seem he slowed down n then his laptop broke n i bought me one n when i found out he was watchn porn all day thru the day on it i broke up w him n change my password n everytime we got back together he said he would stop n it happend like 6 times that i have to keep changn my password n now im pregnant n found out he downloadet sh** on my laptop after i said NO not on my sh*t....n he says im crazy for brakin up w him....what should i do? am i freakn wrong bout not letting him watch??n i kno guys do that but this one wants to do it everday all day...even tho we made our own videos of us...n he tryed to say that he rather wathch me but when i threw our videos on his face he didnt kno what to say.....? | | its good that you broke up with him, he should respect u and not watch that stuff. hes married if he wants to watch naked women he can just look at you.. there are men out there that DONT watch porn.. dont listen to ppl that say its normal bcuz its not.. its called respecting your women, why would u want to watch nasty girls doing it ?? yuck... dont go back to him he will only break ur heart.. | How do I get my husband to stop playing video games so much? I don't want to make it seem like he's an addict, at least not yet. He only plays on his days off work but he does it for up to five hours at a time. During this time he begs me to sit down next to him and watch him play which I do but only for about 30minutes, don't expect me to sit there all day. It feels like he only wants to spend time with me to have sex and he even told me playing the ps3 is the equivalent of sex, a little insulting to be compared to a game consul. I play video games too, don't get me wrong but only about once a week, he wants to play whenever he's not having sex or working. It makes me feel somewhat ignored. Right now I'm five months pregnant and it worries that once the baby comes this video game addiction, which i find juvenile, won't go away. I would much rather he spend his free time with me rather than sitting in front of the t.v. It also drives me crazy whenever I'm not in the mood for sex and he tells me, "ok, I'll just go play ps3 then." | | It sounds like an addiction to me. Tell him that he needs to cut it down to 1 hour at a time. | How do I come up with a plot for a novel? I just typed up my character development. Here is a summary of what all of my characters are like. I sketched them out a lot more thoroughly than this, but if I just copied and pasted it then it would cut off because of the character limit and that's inconvenient. But the problem is -- I'm not sure how I should put these characters into one story and create a plot. I want to go deep into each of their private lives. I want it to kind of be like "The Secret Life of The American Teenager" (except less annoying. And I don't want to base it solely on sex like the show does.) So my question is, how can I put all these characters together in one plot? Any ideas? (Only for inspiration, I won't steal them.)
Lindsay McDonald - Shy, blunt, intelligent and the new girl at school. Takes care of her younger brother (who has autism) when her mom is at work. Her parents are divorced. She's naive, honest and is determined to bring her family closer together.
Lena Ramirez - Aggressive, self conscious and is known as the "school whore." She is usually caught looking in a mirror (but not for vain reasons..) and she has extreme anger issues. She can be very emotional, but doesn't like to show it. She is flirtatious and can often be clingy. Even though she doesn't have many friends at the start of the story, most people feel inferior to her because of her beauty. Some are even afraid of her.
Sam Kowalski - She is an aggressive tomboy who is lazy and doesn't like doing work. She is dependable and even cold hearted sometimes. She is rebellious and opinionated, with a strong personality overall. Her dad is in jail for drug possession and has been imprisoned two times beforehand. He used to abuse his family (Sam, her brother and Sam's mom,) and he also got arrested for DWI when he was younger. Her mother is uncaring so she is usually watching her little brother even though she doesn't want to. Sam can be gullible sometimes as well, and hates attention.
Nathan Cressop - His mom is very overprotective, and he wants his freedom. He isn't very popular but he doesn't mind it. His father is dead from a car accident. He is generous, daring, attentive, charismatic and humorous. Although his mother attempts training him against it, sometimes he can be very aggressive and depressed. He doesn't have many friends and is a bit reserved.
Miranda Sheir - She is a goody goody. Miranda likes to knit and dance ballet. She is outgoing, sassy and even a bit clumsy sometimes. She is eager, outgoing and over jealous sometimes. She gets attached to people easily, but is never clingy. She is extremely sensitive and is - in a way - spoiled by her grandparents, whom she lives with. Her mother gave birth to her at a young age and her father disappeared once he found out she was pregnant. Her mom left Miranda with her parents and they've raised her as if she was their own. She is honest as she is an extremely bad liar, and she is ambitious too. All of her teachers love her and most boys have a crush on her. She isn't stuck up, either. She gets stressed out easily and hates procrastinating. She is popular and gullible but does not enjoy it whatsoever.
(Is she too perfect?)
Joe Palmer - He is in a band, isn't popular but nevertheless isn't a nerd. He is rude to you unless you gain his respect. He ia lazy, satirical and sweet when he wants to be. His parents favor his seemingly perfect brother Zach over him, even though Joe is more innocent. His parents think the music he listens to is "Satan music" and they always ignore him. Sometimes he can be cocky, as many people fight for his attention. But since he is so picky about people he is mostly lonely. He likes spending his free time alone -- mostly writing music and playing video games. Even though he doesn't express it, he believes in true love.
Zach Palmer - Adopted brother of Joe Pal | | Try making a secret that ties them all together that's how I tie people together in one book | Hypothetical questions to answer? ok, i stole this post it is a year old i liked it and wanted to see what would the new and improved answers be. thanx
Check it out, here's how this game's gonna work, I ask you a list of questions with a certain amount of options, you pick one of the options for each one. If you are having a hard time with one, you are entitled to one "tie" it's optional but if you must use it, you can, but only on one question.The rest you have to pick an option. You must put down the question number and you can either write you answer or just put the letter that represents the option, you must write why you picked that answer. I made all these questions up myself, some are original and some aren't really that creative, but for the most part this will be fun.
1. You can either live...
a) home alone for the rest of your life. You can watch all the movies, all the television, eat all the food you want, go on yahoo answers, youtube, play video games etc.. but no friends or family or knowing anyone at all.
or
b) Live the most fulfilling life, having as many friends as you want, travel the world, basically doing everything you ever wanted to do BUT, you can't eat, play games watch T.V. or use internet and you die in a year. (you still fulfiled all the dreams you had aside from things related to computer.)
2.Would you rather
a) Live with a curse of being hilariously humiliated every day for the rest of your life, but able to laugh about it (its still embarrassing but you have a sense of humor.)
or
b) You are blessed with never having to be humiliated ever again for the rest of your life but you have absolutely no sense of humor, you can never find anything funny.
3. Say you had a daughter (or another daughter)
a) she loves you, she is smart, beautiful, talented and everything you ever wanted except she becomes pregnant at a young age, basically young enough for you to be devastated.
or
b) she is retarded, handicapped, not exactly society's standard of pretty, no social life, but has all the love in the world to give to you.
4. Say you have a lot of regrets in your life. You can change them! by...
a) Re-living your entire life just to get to those moments, that means coming out of your mom over again, yep, you get to see it all. (you have the same brain and soul as you do right now because then you can remember what you need to change and such.)
b) Or you can just let all those things go from this point on and forget about them.
5. Which would you choose?
a) Living in the woods with a village just like Pocahontas.
or
b) Living the way you do now only all you enemies live in your house.
6. Let's do another Pocahontas one, (they have a hard situation at the end and it's similar to these types of questions) do you remember the end of the movie? Okay, you live in a village with everyone you love and then someone comes to the villiage that you happen to fall in love with (like seriously, you know you will never find anyone better) but he/she has to leave now forever. Do you...
a) Go with them
or
b) Stay with your village.
7. If you had to die, who would you rather have kill you?
a) Jason Voorhees at camp crystal lake
or
b) Freddy Kruger in your dreams
8. *~*~*GIRLS*~*~*
If you could have a period free month, with the price of having one month taken off your life, would you...
a) use it often
or
b) never (you can't say rarely, it has to be one or the other, unless you use your tie right now.)
9.*~*~*GUYS*~*~*
The majority of women said that they would choose chocolate over sex. If there was something you would take over sex (say what it would be) and lets say in your future there are a certain amount of times you will have sex. you can either...
a) Be banished from that thing forever
or
b) Everytime you eat it or use it or watch it or whatever, it takes one of those times you will have sex away.
9. (This one is Buffy the vampire slayer inspired. If you have seen season 6 you will understand this better. If you haven't it doesn't really matter...anyways.) Say a friend of yours died. You have no way of knowing whether that are in heaven or in hell, but you have a way to bring them back easily. If you bring them back from hell, it's good, if you bring them back from heaven it's bad. would you take the chance and bring them back anyway?
a) yes
or
b) no
10. should I do one of these again? (Okay so it's not hypothetical but yeah.)
a) Yes I had fun
b) No, you are the equivalent of flaming nut butter in Spain. Go kill yourself. (wtf?)
11. Say you hear this awesome song, like the best song in the world and you either
a) Have to listen to it everyday for the rest of your life possibly multiple times a day untill it gets annoying and repetitive but you still have to listen to it then.
b) Never listen to it again, just this one time.
So. Hope th | 1) A - I'm assuming I also can't go to work, being I might form a friendship there, if I don't already have one (which I don't).
2) B - I guess it wouldn't matter much considering my answer to question one, although movies, television, and the internet might lose some of it's grandeur.
3) A - In either case she loves me, and I would love her. However, in the first case I can do something to help fix the situation. I can help raise the guy while she finishes school. Having a guy early in life isn't the end of the world, just a change of the world you already live in.
4) A - This is a tough one, but I'm trying not to tie on any of these. I would try to live my life as close to how I did originally, just because I don't want to risk losing some of the people in my life. However, I would definitely make some killer money in the stock market.
5) A - Again, a tough one. I have always wanted to live in the woods for a while, just for "simplicity." I don't know how I could handle doing it for the rest of my life though. I would definitely miss some of the things in my life now.
6) B - I just would.
7) A - I had to look up who he was. I'm not much of a horror movie guy. The only reason I picked him is because in the picture I saw he had a machete. I think that would be a quicker death than Freddy's claws.
8) Not Applicable
9) B - Money - I can live without sex.
9 again) A - Honestly, I would do it for very selfish reasons. I want to know what happens when you die. I don't believe in a heaven or a hell, but would sure like to know if I am wrong. Besides, you didn't say they couldn't go back to heaven again. They would just have to suck it up for a little while longer.
10) A - I will elaborate below.
11) B - I guess this is the "Is is better to burn out or fade away?" question flipped around, kind of. Not so much a fade, but a sudden non-existence.
This was pretty fun, but I think the next one should have questions dependent on previous ones. For example, if I answered the first question with "A," then that makes a lot of the later questions non-applicable. I am not sure how to go about doing that, but I think it would be a little more fun. The earlier questions could limit your answers to later ones, sort of giving you and idea of some of the repercussions of your decisions. Or, you could make the later question completely unassociated with the priors. That is, if I said that I would live alone for the rest of my life, I wouldn't later get a question asking whether I would follow my lover back home or stay where I was, being I would have never met anyone.
Regardless, it was still fun. Thanks.
P.S. Oh, and I think you meant to put two "8's," not two "9's." Just letting you know. | Series of Hypothetical Questions (Part 1)? Check it out, here's how this game's gonna work, I ask you a list of questions with a certain amount of options, you pick one of the options for each one. If you are having a hard time with one, you are entitled to one "tie" it's optional but if you must use it, you can, but only on one question.The rest you have to pick an option. You must put down the question number and you can either write you answer or just put the letter that represents the option, you must write why you picked that answer. I made all these questions up myself, some are original and some aren't really that creative, but for the most part this will be fun.
1. You can either live...
a) home alone for the rest of your life. You can watch all the movies, all the television, eat all the food you want, go on yahoo answers, youtube, play video games etc.. but no friends or family or knowing anyone at all.
or
b) Live the most fulfilling life, having as many friends as you want, travel the world, basically doing everything you ever wanted to do BUT, you can't eat, play games watch T.V. or use internet and you die in a year. (you still fulfiled all the dreams you had aside from things related to computer.)
2.Would you rather
a) Live with a curse of being hilariously humiliated every day for the rest of your life, but able to laugh about it (its still embarrassing but you have a sense of humor.)
or
b) You are blessed with never having to be humiliated ever again for the rest of your life but you have absolutely no sense of humor, you can never find anything funny.
3. Say you had a daughter (or another daughter)
a) she loves you, she is smart, beautiful, talented and everything you ever wanted except she becomes pregnant at a young age, basically young enough for you to be devastated.
or
b) she is retarded, handicapped, not exactly society's standard of pretty, no social life, but has all the love in the world to give to you.
4. Say you have a lot of regrets in your life. You can change them! by...
a) Re-living your entire life just to get to those moments, that means coming out of your mom over again, yep, you get to see it all. (you have the same brain and soul as you do right now because then you can remember what you need to change and such.)
b) Or you can just let all those things go from this point on and forget about them.
5. Which would you choose?
a) Living in the woods with a village just like Pocahontas.
or
b) Living the way you do now only all you enemies live in your house.
6. Let's do another Pocahontas one, (they have a hard situation at the end and it's similar to these types of questions) do you remember the end of the movie? Okay, you live in a village with everyone you love and then someone comes to the villiage that you happen to fall in love with (like seriously, you know you will never find anyone better) but he/she has to leave now forever. Do you...
a) Go with them
or
b) Stay with your village.
7. If you had to die, who would you rather have kill you?
a) Jason Voorhees at camp crystal lake
or
b) Freddy Kruger in your dreams
8. *~*~*GIRLS*~*~*
If you could have a period free month, with the price of having one month taken off your life, would you...
a) use it often
or
b) never (you can't say rarely, it has to be one or the other, unless you use your tie right now.)
9.*~*~*GUYS*~*~*
The majority of women said that they would choose chocolate over sex. If there was something you would take over sex (say what it would be) and lets say in your future there are a certain amount of times you will have sex. you can either...
a) Be banished from that thing forever
or
b) Everytime you eat it or use it or watch it or whatever, it takes one of those times you will have sex away.
9. (This one is Buffy the vampire slayer inspired. If you have seen season 6 you will understand this better. If you haven't it doesn't really matter...anyways.) Say a friend of yours died. You have no way of knowing whether that are in heaven or in hell, but you have a way to bring them back easily. If you bring them back from hell, it's good, if you bring them back from heaven it's bad. would you take the chance and bring them back anyway?
a) yes
or
b) no
10. should I do one of these again? (Okay so it's not hypothetical but yeah.)
a) Yes I had fun
b) No, you are the equivalent of flaming nut butter in Spain. Go kill yourself. (wtf?)
So. Hope this was fun, post your answers and why you picked them. | 1. A- that's pretty much my life anyway, I do have friends but it's not like I'd die without them.
2. A- I like my sense of humor.
3. A- We would get over it I'm sure.
4. A- I would re-do it all; that was an easy one.
5. A- Pocahontas village
6. A- This is true love - do you think this happens every day?
7. B- Freddy Kruger, I'll have a better fighting chance in my dreams.
8. B- Never.
9. A- They got there once, they can do it again.
10. A- Yes it was fun and a bit different from the others.
11. B- I'd rather enjoy it just once, then hate it for the rest of eternity. |
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