How do you feel about men spanking their wives with the belt for punishment? A pastor told me this was wrong? An ex-girlfriend of mine believed in it but a pastor told me it was wrong. Current fiancee only believes in it for very rare serious offenses. What should I believe? |
| My wife and I have been faithfully practicing Doemstic discipline for our entire 9 year marriage and fior the first few months before we wed she agrees and I do too. I use a belt for serious offenses and my hand for minor. |
How do you feel about men making their wife or girlfriend give herself a 'silent spanking' in public? I have known several men that make their wife or girlfriend give herself a 'silent spanking' if she were to 'act up' in public. This consists of making her go to the bathroom and applying Capsaicin creme on her bottom. As you know, this creme will cause an intense burning sensation on any skin tissue it comes into contact with. When the woman comes out of the restroom she will constantly be reminded of why she is to behave right (because of her 'burning' bottom). The reason they do this is because a lot of people look down on men spanking their wives in public for being bad. This method is very discrete. I however, totally disagree with it because for one, the woman might just put a little amount on so it won't be effective and two (and most important) it is just too mean. I believe in giving woman the classic 'look' that tells them silently they better straighten up. If they don't, you pull them away from everyone and spank her privately (with a discussion). Who is right here? |
| I believe in giving her a little spanking in public ..=P |
Why do men feel nervous about spanking me? I'm a submissive female who loves being spanked. Why do men always feel so nervous about spanking me? I love it as foreplay. |
they are not real men,and they probably have guilt and shame issues!so many men have hang ups about women and sex,like they want us to be sweet and demure ,its like they think sex is dirty and a woman is dirty for giving it,yet they still want it!
get a real man with no guy hood issues or hang ups about women or his mum,or someone who is open to it.go girl! |
Are any women into spanking men while wearing their lingerie, caught in the panty drawer so to speak? I truly wish I didn't like this, I feel like a total freak and the older I get, I'm tired of denying myself these pleasures |
| OMG, you just describe my favorite thing! Spanking crossdressers! Too bad I'm taken. :-( But rest assured, there are a lot of men out there like you. And there are women who like them. |
How many women actually get off on spanking men? From what I have read, this seems to be mainly a male fantasy. Are there really female spankos out there? |
I enjoy spanking my man but not to the extent that he spanks my @ss. He has big, strong hands and is not afraid to use them. Mmmmm
I could learn to do it more to please him. Of course, I wouldn't just look for any guy to have that kind of fun with. |
Men Spanking Women more Natural than Women Spanking Men? I don't want to go into the details about what led me to ask this but do you think that it's more ridicules to see a grown woman spanking a grown man, than it is to see a grown man spanking a grown woman? I think so and I am a woman! The thought of seeing a woman trying to put a man over her knee and spank him just makes me laugh and just doesn't look normal. But I can picture a man putting a woman over his knee and spanking her, it seems more natural. Men are bigger and stronger and instinctively more dominant. Even when you look at old movies, it's always the guy putting the girl over his lap and spanking her, you never see it the other way around, I think there's a reason for that. Now I'm not supporting domestic abuse at all, besides spanking IS NOT abuse, but let's just say my husband has had to put me over his knee once or twice for a "talk" about my attitude, but I couldn't and wouldn't imagine me taking him and putting him on my lap and spanking him, it's too weird and kinda grosses me out, it would just emasculate him. And I at least felt more feminine when I was over his knee. Any way what do you think, just picture it. And I'm not talking about "sexual" spankings either, real ones for punishment. What's more ridicules to you? |
Sounds like you are comfortable with stereotypes and gender roles. While it isn't my thing by a long shot, I can live and let live. So while to me spanking between adults isn't "natural", it's perfectly fine if you find it to be so for yourself. It is your life and your marriage and you can handle both (or let your husband handle them, rather) any way you want. Yes, men spanking women is more common and therefore seems more normal to people like you, but if a person tries to be objective and open minded? They wouldn't see it the same way.
As for what is more ridiculous to me, I can not decide. Both for instances are something I would not only refer from trying, but also don't enjoy the thought of. Maybe it's the fact that I am 100% for equal treatment and don't follow gender roles. Maybe it's because I am generally too dominant to find submitting to a man "natural", let alone letting him spank me for my "attitude". Maybe it's because I associate spanking with inappropriate punishment for guyren. Or maybe it's because a grown man spanking a grown woman borders on abuse if the woman doesn't want or enjoy it.
Either way, spanking is ridiculous to me in general. Not natural, not normal. Just ridiculous. |
Music video in mansion with woman spanking men with white glove? What's the name of the music group where there's a woman with a white glove in a large mansion spanking men? It's a funny music video. I just cant' remember the name. |
It is by Armand Van Helden and the song is "Hear My Name" you can watch the video here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=C11ftLeMjlw
She is Also known as or been a part of these groups: Deep Creed, Sultans of Swing, Banji Boys, Circle Guyren, Old School Junkies, Jungle Juice, Armand & The Banana Spliffs, Hardhead, Wizzards of Wax, The Mole People, Chupacabra, Duck Sauce |
How many men spank each other and why? Especially buddies who spank each other if they drink or cheat on their wives or girlfriends? How about coaches who spank their adult players? Teammates who will spank a teammate for being late or missing practice? Drill sergeants who spank their privates? Bosses who spank men who work for them for being late or lazy? Any other categories? Please discuss this. |
That's just plain weird.
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Question for men--- Spanking (woman can answer also)? why do men love to spank so much. I have asked my fiance countless times and he doesn't have an answer, he just says "I don't know" Is it just habit. Does anyone know why. My friend says some men look at it as a controlling thing but i don't believe that. My fiance isn't like that |
Sorry, I couldn't help but giggle when I read this.
I can say that not all guys are into the whole spanking thing but it is quite common. I think they enjoy that controlling feeling they get because it doesn't cross the line, until they ask for spandex and whips lol |
Are men who spank their daughters perverts? Me and my mates saw a man in town spanking his daughter on the a$$. I don't agree with spanking but come on, isn't a man spanking a little girl a bit perverted? |
As long as he's not doing it in a creepy way, I am okay with that. Both parents should enforce punishment so it is only right for the father to spank if its a punishment in that household.
But he should be discrete and do it in closed quarters. |